Have you ever wanted to jet set alone across the world, but don’t have the guts to do it yet? Solo traveling is definitely a hot topic lately, with “black-ish” and “Girlfriends” actress Tracee Ellis Ross presenting her three-part docuseries, “ Solo Traveling with Tracee Ellis Ross”, streaming on The Roku Channel.
Last summer, she said on the Today Show, if you’re afraid to solo travel, “the first thing to do is see if you can go to dinner by yourself…if you can do that and you still feel nervous about checking out a trip, go to some place you’ve been with other people, but go by yourself…The best thing to do is to ask yourself what kind of solo travel do you want.”
While traveling anywhere involves inherent risk, solo travel is so important! It’s an opportunity to explore new places and cultures, and take it all in without worrying about anyone else’s needs or opinions. And that’s why I wrote this article, to help you take the plunge and to answer all of your essential questions about logistics.
A little about me: I’m a travel blogger who has visited 23 countries and territories outside the United States. I’ve written a book about living abroad, called Blacktrekking: My Journey Living in Latin America. Besides moving abroad by myself to the Dominican Republic and Colombia, I have also visited the Netherlands and Ghana, where I participated in a naming ceremony. I enjoyed my trip to Ghana so much that I returned home and wrote a children’s book about it (available at blacktrekking.com). This year, I took a solo trip to Guatemala.
To add to my tips, I interviewed Lauren Gay, a devoted grandmother from Florida, who is one of the co-founders of the Black Travel Alliance and the founder of “.” Her solo travel stories are featured in Lonely Planet’s new book, “Women Travel Solo.” Lauren has been taking solo trips since 2015.
What’s the best way to ease the anxiety of family members when I announce I’m taking a solo trip abroad?
I’ve found that taking precautions, instead of winging it, is key. Definitely research the destination beforehand and make sure it’s friendly toward your lifestyle, as some countries are less accessible to people with mobility issues and others are not LGBTQ friendly. Often, I spend the money to hire a driver and tour guide who knows the area to ease the anxiety of everyone involved.
My family was worried about me traveling to Guatemala, as they were concerned about the security risks, considering the United States government had issued a Level 3 Travel Advisory for the Central American nation, which stated, “Reconsider Travel,” due to crime.
While I was a bit anxious about leaving my children and husband for a few days, I consulted with many Black and Latino friends who had visited there, and they all had positive reviews.
The trip was important to me because I wanted to visit Guatemala’s historical city of Antigua, which the UNESCO World Heritage Convention recognizes. I’ve also seen jaw-dropping photos of Guatemala’s Lake Atitlan, which some consider to be the most beautiful lake in the world. Also, I love taking solo trips abroad to places where I’m forced to speak exclusively in Spanish. Spanish was one of my majors in college; I’m fluent, but I rarely get to speak it at home.
Where do you find guides and drivers?
Social media can be very helpful. I found my driver in Guatemala, Carlos, on the Facebook group “Black Travel Movement,” where he was highly recommended. I’m glad I did, because he mapped everything out for me.