This month's Big Idea is "Prioritize and Keep Your Eyes on the Prize." Author Shanae Patterson Rivers spent six years pursuing her goal. Have you ever set a big goal, perhaps tied to a birthday or other milestone? Are you planning or working towards one now? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Daybreak was still two hours away when I arrived at Kapiolani Park on Waikiki Island the morning of May 26, 2024. After spending nearly a year planning my first trip to the Aloha state, I was in the 50th state to celebrate my 50th birthday by running my 50th half-marathon.
With only a few hundred registered runners, the 16th annual Hibiscus Half Marathon was small compared to other races I’d run, some of which had tens of thousands of participants. As the crowd waited for the start signal, I tried to calm the butterflies I experienced at the beginning of every race. The starting horn sounded at 5:30 am and off I went on the 13.1-mile trek to Diamond Head and back.
Growing up, I was always active in sports. But I didn’t start running until I served in the military. It was mandatory for physical training. I completed my service in 2000, and more than a decade passed before I took up the sport again. Following the death of my father in 2011, my emotions were all over the place. I was angry at the world and angry at God. Running gave me something to focus on, to get away from my grief. That year, I joined a friend for the 10th anniversary 911 half-marathon in Chicago in honor of my father.
Following the death of my father in 2011, my emotions were all over the place. I was angry at the world and angry at God. Running gave me something to focus on, to get away from my grief.
Not long after that, I got exposed to Black Girls RUN! Besides encouraging Black women to adopt a healthy, active lifestyle through running, members of the group talked about running away from diabetes and hypertension and all the illnesses that so many Black people experience. The group gave me structure and the community I didn’t even know I needed. Prior to that, I’d always run alone, but I found companionship and camaraderie running with other Black women. That’s when I got the bug and decided to focus on half-marathons. I ran my second half marathon in North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina in 2015.