When Your New Stylist is a Barber

What about the camaraderie of the salon? Will it feel intimidating being in a male-dominated space?

So many of us sisters share fond memories of being at the hair salon. Our younger selves enjoyed flipping through issues of Sophisticate's Black Hair Styles And Care Guide or Essence while eavesdropping on all the juicy conversations buzzing around the shop that made us wish we were all grown up. Many of us adult women engage in that experience in a way that feels nourishing and affirming.

Many sisters say they feel welcomed at their barbershop. The female clientele has grown at barbershops as well as the number of female barbers. But these businesses in our communities remain special spaces where Black men feel seen and supported. If you see a sister with a sharp cut, consider asking here where she goes. You won’t know for sure what the vibe at the shop will feel like until your first visit. A good way to test the waters is by having your trusted hairdresser give you your desired cut first. Then, a few days later, step inside a barbershop to introduce yourself and see if it’s a style they can help you maintain going forward. Maintaining a simple look means your visit will likely last minutes, not hours.

Also keep in mind that many salons hire barbers part time. Check if yours does, and what that person’s schedule is.

Pro tips for transitioning from a salon to the barbershop

Take a little time to educate yourself on clipper guard sizes as well as common barber terms like taper and fade before your appointment so you can communicate exactly what you want. When in doubt, bring in photos.

Unlike a traditional salon, some barbershops accept walk-ins. This may require a wait. Since master barbers tend to run by appointment only, you may get paired with an apprentice, who’s still learning the trade.

Just like how you trust your hairdresser's guidance, don't be afraid to tap your barber for advice on what style is best suited for your head shape and hair texture.